Hey Dad...: Everything You Should've Learned About Life (But Didn't)

When I picked up "Hey Dad...: Everything You Should’ve Learned About Life (But Didn’t)" for the first time, it felt as if an old friend were sitting down to teach me life’s lessons. Rob Finlay writes from the heart of a father who, while reflecting on his mistakes, wants to impart to his children the wisdom he overlooked in his youth. As I read, I was reminded of my father—his laughter, his loving advice, and the confidence he instilled in me, which still gives me courage today.

On the very first page, Rob shares the story of his daughter’s midnight phone call, asking if diesel fuel can be used in her Jeep. This small, humorous moment made me burst out laughing and reminded me of the time I called my dad at 11 p.m. to ask how to make popcorn. Through this lighthearted anecdote, Rob delivers a deeper message: he realizes he missed teaching his children some basic life lessons. This blend of humor and emotion makes the book instantly relatable—a quality that shines in every chapter, where Rob explains complex topics in simple, everyday language.

Each chapter explores a new aspect of life—how to find a job, what to do in an emergency, or why credit scores matter. The chapters “Get a Plan” and “Get a Job” were particularly impactful. Rob shares his own experiences—his struggles in college, his journey to Wall Street, and the realization that not every answer in life comes right away. The question of “now what?” after college can be daunting, especially for young women who often face pressure to be perfect at every step. Rob’s reassurance that life is about learning from mistakes is comforting. His writing feels like a friend offering advice over coffee—nonjudgmental and straightforward.

Overall, "Hey Dad..." is a book that supports you through life’s twists and turns. While reading, I laughed, cried, and—most importantly—gained self-confidence. Rob Finlay has created a priceless gift not only for his children but for every young person grappling with life’s uncertainties. Every young adult nervous about life after college should read it. Rob’s writing not only teaches but also celebrates the art of living lightly.

This book is a personal journey that invites you to revisit it repeatedly. A bit more depth in some areas could have made it perfect, but it remains deeply heartfelt.